Something struck me as I glanced through the notes over the weekend. I’ve been paying attention to how people transition between different careers or jobs, and I’ve noticed a recurring theme.
Here’s an example, from Lacey in Indiana:
“I had just booked a trip to the Amazon when I received the news of my layoff. It was a bummer—I didn’t love the job and wanted to find something better, but I wasn’t quite prepared to be unemployed. Looking for something better was socially acceptable, but telling my parents I had lost my job felt marginalizing.
Then there was the matter of the trip. Should I go? My first thought was: I have to cancel that. Why would I take a vacation when I was unemployed?
But I’d already booked it, and much of it was paid for. I figured it wouldn’t make much of a difference if I was gone for six extra days, so I took that flight and had a great time.
I also received a lot of clarity while I was in Brazil. I realized I’d been afraid to ask for what I wanted, and I’d taken the mediocre job because, well, that’s what you’re supposed to do.
I set my sights higher and started emailing around, posting on LinkedIn, etc. After I came home, I had two interviews the following month. There were still some days of uncertainty—and I never showed the trip photos to my family, who questioned why I’d travel without a job waiting on the other side—but I was eventually offered a totally different kind of full-time position. I’ve just started and it’s going well. I’m glad to be doing something different, and I’m also glad I traveled.”
Isn’t that interesting? Maybe if you aren’t sure of your next career move, you should take a trip.